Move On and Let Go

There are many relationships that we follow in our life. Our life is full of relationships that has to be maintained by us. But sometimes in our lives we fail to maintain it. Sometimes holding on to something hurt us so bad that we end up leaving the thread of relationship. One of the most important relationship we have is of our partners, where we commit to deal with it. There are times when our partners doesn’t maintain it. Or there could be other reasons where you both cannot be together. Loving someone is easy, staying in that love is difficult. And what happens when that special person walk away from your life or you guys decide to not stay together?  It hurts, it’s a heartache that sometimes we forget ourselves. We just pray that the person comes back with same affection in heart. But let’s face it, sometimes some people are not meant to be together.

It is not okay being somewhere where you are not respected, aren’t happy, valued or appreciated.  There are times when we choose a wrong person for us and love them unconditionally, and it’s okay, if you have chosen the wrong one. When we buy a lipstick, there are many shades we try on us, to see what’s the best color, what suits us more, and then we find that one lipstick that suits us, matches with every outfit and makes us beautiful. Before that we try a million of shades. Same happens in life, sometimes we get a wrong person, we only come to know when we start knowing that person. There will be a day when you will find that right one, where you can give your all self completely. So don’t confined yourself to one person. Sometimes some people are not meant to stay. They just came to teach us some valuable lesson. Move on and let go. Release yourself from the past relationships. It’s hard to forget but if you won’t, it will haunt you forever and you won’t be able to give yourself another chance.

Here are some tips that might help you in moving on.

• Forgive the person, not because you have ignored their mistakes or they deserve your forgiveness. Forgive them because you deserve peace.
• Burn the all relatable things attached to your partner. It may sounds stupid but try it once you will feel better and relaxed.
• Try to understand how much worth you deserve.
• People who are walking away from your life let them walk away, that means they are not attached to your future.
• Hope anchors the soul and faith keep the heart beating, think when you can value and love the wrong one, how much you can love the right one.
• Relationship means growing of an individual person from the support of your partner. If your partner wasn’t supporting, it was just a waste of time.
• There will be sleepless nights, don’t lose yourself that it may affect you.
• Try focus on your career and try on some good things. Things that will help you feeling good. Try new things. Like, cook yourself a traditional dinner, read some life enhancing novels, go on a mini vacation.
• Try to talk to other people, make some new friends and communicate.
• Delete the person from every social app you were connected.
• Know your worth and that you deserve someone who can give your soul peace, non-stressed life and happiness that you deserve.
• Don’t rush, take your own time. Healing is a process, you are hurt so give yourself some time, and your heart will heal.
• If the person tries to come back, clearly say no, because at very first place the person wouldn’t have leave you. Don’t allow the person to re-enter in your life, you cannot hurt yourself back again.
• There will be trust issues, no problem with that. It will build again when you will find the right lovable person.

so yes, please move on, try to forget and know your worth. Forgive the person but never give them another chance to hurt you in any possible way. Because you deserve peaceful sleep at night and shiny mornings. Hate is heavy, let it go, release yourself from heaviness of hate, a burden of stress and depression. Because one single person isn’t allowed to destroy you for the eternity. Believe that there is one person who is happy because you are happy and when the right times comes for you, you both will rise in each other’s love that you both belong for

Somewhere deep down in his heart….

Somewhere deep down in his heart….

He is hurt because he didn’t get to do what He dreamt off. Just like she who get strong with every pain in heart, he get stronger too working for himself.

He is depressed and goes questioning himself before sleeping. He needs love.

Pain demands to be felt, by everyone

Its okay, men feel pain too.

He cries alone sitting in dark corners in cool breeze in cold nights, just so nobody finds out he is weak. Sometimes let your men cry.

He is upset and distracted because he didn’t get her girl , he loved and made every effort to keep her. Because she left him.

He is hurt again.

You should stop and look at him, his heart cries out loud so that you hear him.

Touch his heart for once, you will feel , there is so much hurricane inside the that little heart. Touch his soul for once, you will find there is fire burning him down slowly.

Feel the effort that he makes , appreciate him, he is has cigarette in his hand, with a story to tell to everyone. He is not afraid of death, because something is already killing him inside.

He felt disrespected and ignored when you made fun of him saying it happens with everyone.

No, don’t do that, be gentle to your men

They are hurt too. Just like you need a hug and someone to hold

He needs care and love , someone who see’s through him that the universe inside him is exploding.

There is a storm going on in him, because men don’t speak their pain, it needs to be felt.

So, Sit and listen to your men, they have stories to tell,

screams to listen… and

heart to be loved.

Because he deserves your Peace too.